INSPIRATIONAL AND MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER MARY KELYN TALKS ON RELATIONSHIP MATTERS IN YOUNG ADULTS AND YOUTHS.

IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP USE YOUR MIND NOT YOUR EYES

IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS

1. ARE YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM/HER

You must be physically attracted to the person you are going into a relationship with,

If you fall into love, you will gradually fall out of it.

There must be something to keep you in it.

Eg the way he/she talks, plays or even jokes etc.

Don’t let your emotions deceive you,

Never go into any relationship because of looks whatever that attracted you to your partner is what will keep you in the relationship.

2. WHAT DO YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP?

*FLING?

*RELATIONSHIP?

*MARRIAGE?

These are the things you need to ask yourself before going into a relationship and also for ladies

It’s something you have to find out from you partner.

Every relationship has to be defined.(Have a purpose)

When you don’t define your relationship, your relationship will define you.

Don’t be ashamed to ask your partner. “WHERE ARE WE HEADING TO or WHAT ARE WE DOING”

3. ARE YOU LONELY?

Don’t go into any relationship because you are lonely.

When you are lonely that’s when you settle for anything just to fill in the gap, at that point you can even settle for the less. Being single has its own benefits, Those who feared being single are likely to end up in a dissatisfying relationship, it is understandable that we seek out intimate relationships, but when fear of being alone drives our romantic decisions, it can lead one to exercise poor judgment and to choose relationships that are unlikely to last or to a relationships that makes one depressed, even leave one vulnerable to abuse.

This is most likely referred to ladies who think they are getting too old for marriage.

4.  WHAT DO YOU WANT IN A PARTNER?

Attraction does not mean quality.

You have to ask yourself what you want in a relationship before venturing into it.

If you are a very churchy person and your partner doesn’t bother about God.

{Don’t go with the assumption that you can change him}

Don’t try to force or drag him or make it a prayer point, you might get into trouble along the line

You can’t change your partner and don’t try to change him.

Predominantly Human Nature Doesn’t change much apart from spiritual influence.

If you can’t live with him the way he is, leave him.

TO BE CONTINUED

Kindly like my page on Facebook.https://www.facebook.com/Mary-Kelyn-1106226479396579/?fref=t
Mary-Kelyn😀👍📝

Categories: Information