CONTINUATION ON IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS
5. DOES HE OR SHE MAKE YOU HAPPY?
If your partner is someone you don’t always connect well with, quarrelling and arguing all the time it’s very dangerous. You've discerned that you two aren't happy together and you don’t want to leave him because of the impression you have given to your friends and family trying not to disappoint them , forgetting that when you finally get married it will just be the both of you.
There are people who are irritated with their partner but don’t know how to go about it only covering up with the circumstances that he/she has been good to you, he/she has done a lot for you, you don’t want to break his heart but you know that you are not happy in that relationship.
Don’t say as far as he has money and his living fine I will manage that to be happy, don’t think you can spend the money on something that makes you happy.People have traded off their happiness for some level of comfort.
Marriage is forever, if you don’t learn to adapt to his kind of person that’s the end of it.
If his jokes bores you there is no going back, it’s not like a relationship you can walk out whenever you are tired of it, you can decided to walk out now that nothing has happened than when you are already married .
Don’t be in a relationship out of pity (e.g.) because you've known him or her for so many years he has done so many things for you and your family, you don’t want to disappoint him even considering what people will say.Happiness is a big deal in a relationship, your partner making you happy is better than you having the whole wealth.
Be bold enough to call your relationship to order, no matter what it will cost you tell him/her that you aren't happy in that relationship and put an end to it. ”Earlier said than done”.
Have it in mind that A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE .
6. DOES HE HAVE A SOURCE OF LIVELIHOOD?
Is he able to take care of you and himself?
You might say you love him the way he is but you might not love him for too long. Love indeed conquers all, but love still needs a roof over its head, and good livelihood matters because of the expectations that come with it.
If you have to be in a relationship, you should be able to take care of your partner, most of the man’s responsibilities are to take care of the woman.
If you can’t take care of her, why involving her intimacy?.
Every lady should be able to ask her partner, where would we stay. Don’t have the impression that Love is blind.
Love is not blind because you saw something before you followed.
7. DOES HE OR SHE GIVES YOU ATTENTION?
Attention fosters attraction.How he/she looks is not as important as whom he/she is.Is he the party type, drinking to stupor kind of person etc.
When going into a relationship you should consider all these, who will pay attention to you and always be there for you if not at all time but most of the time. All relationship requires work; it takes time, patience and two people who are willing to put in effort. Lack of attention damages relationships far more often than abuse. There’s nothing more vital to the bond you share with each other than simply being there for them.
With frequent attention and affection a relationship flourishes, and as individuals you grow stronger. This is the side effect of a good relationship – we help heal each other’s wounds and support each other’s strengths.
Try to stay in close touch with those who matters to you – communicate openly on a regular basis. Not because it’s convenient, but because these people are worth the extra effort.
TO BE CONTINUED
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Is he able to take care of you and himself?
You might say you love him the way he is but you might not love him for too long. Love indeed conquers all, but love still needs a roof over its head, and good livelihood matters because of the expectations that come with it.
If you have to be in a relationship, you should be able to take care of your partner, most of the man’s responsibilities are to take care of the woman.
If you can’t take care of her, why involving her intimacy?.
Every lady should be able to ask her partner, where would we stay. Don’t have the impression that Love is blind.
Love is not blind because you saw something before you followed.
7. DOES HE OR SHE GIVES YOU ATTENTION?
Attention fosters attraction.How he/she looks is not as important as whom he/she is.Is he the party type, drinking to stupor kind of person etc.
When going into a relationship you should consider all these, who will pay attention to you and always be there for you if not at all time but most of the time. All relationship requires work; it takes time, patience and two people who are willing to put in effort. Lack of attention damages relationships far more often than abuse. There’s nothing more vital to the bond you share with each other than simply being there for them.
With frequent attention and affection a relationship flourishes, and as individuals you grow stronger. This is the side effect of a good relationship – we help heal each other’s wounds and support each other’s strengths.
Try to stay in close touch with those who matters to you – communicate openly on a regular basis. Not because it’s convenient, but because these people are worth the extra effort.
TO BE CONTINUED
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